Wow. It's the Elements of Compatibility I wrote two years ago.
"Broadly, the needs for a healthy relationship can be broken into five categories, which in some ways correspond to the elemental pentacle – Intellectual, Spiritual, Emotional, Physical, and Mythical compatibility. A truly amazing relationship – a life partnership – can be achieved when all five elements of compatibility are in harmony between two people. Here’s the outline of the list of the elements and their aspects. Low compatibility in an aspect is not an insurmountable issue, but if too many aspects are incompatible, and especially if many aspects within one element are incompatible, much work would need to be done to sustain the relationship, and perhaps it might be best to continue the search. [snip]
Intellectual -communication -education -intelligence -common sense -problem solving -humor
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Date: 2003-11-17 02:08 pm (UTC)"Broadly, the needs for a healthy relationship can be broken into five categories, which in some ways correspond to the elemental pentacle – Intellectual, Spiritual, Emotional, Physical, and Mythical compatibility. A truly amazing relationship – a life partnership – can be achieved when all five elements of compatibility are in harmony between two people. Here’s the outline of the list of the elements and their aspects. Low compatibility in an aspect is not an insurmountable issue, but if too many aspects are incompatible, and especially if many aspects within one element are incompatible, much work would need to be done to sustain the relationship, and perhaps it might be best to continue the search. [snip]
Intellectual
-communication
-education
-intelligence
-common sense
-problem solving
-humor
Physical
-attraction/sex
-career/finance
-health
-responsibility
-risk-taking
-public/private
Emotional
-compassion
-expression/sharing
-integrity
-trust
-health
-addictions
Spiritual
-theology
-practice
-tolerance
-passions
-motivations
-life attitude
Mythic
-needs
-desires
-personal growth
-life path
-position in life
-future goals/aspirations"