Posted by Dan Savage

https://savage.love/savagelove/2026/03/19/the-thursday-letter-can-a-loving-partner-become-a-brutal-dom/

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I’m going to be taking a break from Struggle Session for a bit — but I will be engaging more in the comments, which feels more like a conversation. But I’m gonna keep posting bonus Savage Love letters Thursdays and letting my readers have the first crack at giving the advice. And here’s this week’s … Read More »

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Posted by Nancy Hartunian

https://savage.love/lovecast/2026/03/17/masochistic-macaque/

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A kinky submissive woman’s last relationship went down in flames when her dom insisted on a 24/7, power exchange all-the-damn-time lifestyle. She is raising kids and caring for her sick father. She doesn’t have time for this kind of commitment. How can she set reasonable boundaries in the future? A married man despairs that he’ll … Read More »

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Posted by Nancy Hartunian

https://savage.love/after-action-report/2026/03/13/after-action-report-20/

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Meet Trina, who indulged her dom’s desire. Did she love it? Did she hate it? Listen and learn. Did YOU try something new to you, and want us know about it? Write it up and send it in to Q@Savage.Love.

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Posted by Dan Savage

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Struggle Session is a bonus column where I respond to a few comments from readers and listeners. I also share a letter and invite readers to have the first crack at giving the advice. I’m away this week — so Tuesday’s column was a repeat and there’s no Struggle Session today. But I’m not slacking: … Read More »

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Posted by Nancy Hartunian

https://savage.love/lovecast/2026/03/10/epstein-files-libido-crash/

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Naturally, on this sex and relationship podcast, many of you are thinking about the Epstein files. One caller used to be a dom/daddy for younger women who sought him out and enjoyed him. Still he feels guilty. And another caller is having their libido crash when they read the news. Meanwhile a straight man has … Read More »

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Posted by Nancy Hartunian

https://savage.love/after-action-report/2026/03/06/after-action-reoprt-19/

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Vanilla. Straight. Cis. Monogamous. How could this story possibly be sexy? A monogamous couple tried a dual massage in a foreign country. Mirrors on the ceiling. Pillows on the bed. Jacuzzi. Steam room. At first they wondered if they were allowed to have sex. They were. Hear the tale! If you have a story you … Read More »

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Posted by Nancy Hartunian

https://savage.love/lovecast/2026/03/03/a-cure-for-cotton-mouth/

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When does subbing morph into self-harm? The relationship between a man and his much younger trans woman lover involves intense physical abuse. The girl has a wretched history, and engages in self harm. Although she gives consent, there’s also a language barrier that makes everything they do seem out of control and destructive. A bisexual … Read More »

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